사상검증 소개팅 – Ep4
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사상검증 소개팅 – Ep4


I don’t want you on social media Where does that thought process even come from? We gathered a group of 20 people to participate in a blind date They each chose one person out of the line-up One-sided Blind Date I’ll go with this one right here. Uh I chose her because From what I can tell from her looks She seems like she’d be nice and friendly She seems like she’d be nice and friendly Hello – You’re even better looking in person
– Huh? – You’re beautiful
– Thank you Chooser: answers the given questions Chosen: if the chooser’s answer is not the answer he’s looking for, the lights go off [Tendencies] Hm. Tendencies. [When you consider a potential date material, Nice Face vs. Nice Body] Uh, face. I think. Okay Mhm, this is going well So you’re pretty content with your face. LOL it’s not that And I actually don’t care either way, but Usually when you talk to someone you look at their eyes Rather than their body, right? So I was hoping the answer would be ‘face’ Since I had to choose? Well we’re off to a great start, that’s for sure [If I had a fit body, I would show it off on Insta #fitspo] I would Mm okay I just, I don’t like showing off my body in general and I wish the same for my boyfriend? You said you’re not the type to show off, but I like getting attention So if I have a nice body then of course, Because I worked out so I can show off Yeah that’s true What would you do if you start dating a guy, and he turns out to be an attention whore? I’d probably tease him, in the beginning like ‘what are those~ take it down~’ But if it gets to the point where it’s bothering me or stressing me out, then I don’t think I could keep dating him If it makes him happy, then I can’t do anything about that Respecting boundaries in the relationship Yep [You see three teenagers smoking on the street. Pass them without saying anything vs. Intervene] I would intervene I guess you sit well with injustice and illegalities? Injustice lol Well I think I feel like I don’t necessarily have to step in How about you? Why would you intervene? I mean it’s not to bring justice or anything but I just think that Doing something not fit for your age Is rude to other people around you, especially in public I wouldn’t be against stepping in and talking to them But it could turn into an argument or a fight And I don’t like violence – I’m kind of a pacifist
– I don’t like violence either Me neither I don’t want to go out of my way to possibly provoke them into a fight They would regret it on their own, sometime down the road – Yeah
– Right It’s their life I guess I like to get in other people’s business Naw, don’t say that No I think I am pretty nosy like that [Halfway Check-In] Halfway check-in Halfway check-in? She’s friendly and thoughtful, Like I imagined from seeing her profile video before meeting But, our tendencies are almost completely opposite I like to exert my energy and be social, but she seems to be the type to keep to herself So I don’t know, that’s been on my mind He’s funny I feel like he’s listening to what I’m saying Okay, I… I think we share a lot of similar opinions And even for the lights that turned off, those questions weren’t like, ‘this is a complete turn off’ And I liked his reasoning behind his answers so I think we’re getting along pretty well [Values] [Is social media a waste of time?] Social media is a waste of time No, I don’t think so Ah, okay. Why do you think it’s a waste of time? Well I actually don’t think it’s a waste of time, personally But I want my boyfriend to think it’s a waste and not be on social media Where does that thought process even come from? I’m on social media – But
– Okay Okay, let’s hear you out I don’t want him to be on social media because, I don’t think I want other people looking at my BF’s profile Like guarding your cookie jar, sorta thing? Yeah I mean, A lot of people send messages – Like sliding into the DM?
– Yeah I’ve personally seen a lot of people send DMs And that makes me wary Okay now I understand where you’re coming from The reason why I am pro-social media is that I get most of my info and news from social media and most communication on social media, so I think it’s necessary [Love is the only prerequisite for marriage] Yes, I can get married based just on love. What are some other things you would need for marriage? Even if I really love someone and want to be with him forever, if I don’t have money saved up, I don’t think I can afford the marriage I want to make a differentiation between ideals and reality Okay, realistically. I think we were on a similar thought process, but ended up with different conclusions I’m not talking about unconditional or blind love, but in order for you to get to feeling ‘love’ towards the other person, most people have check lists in their minds and that check list might contain finances, personality, whatever. and the fact that I love that person already means that person proved herself and checked off those boxes and the fact that I love that person already means that person proved herself and checked off those boxes so I think it would be fine to get married If I were to get married when I’m not financially stable, it might be fine for me and my partner, but what if we have a child? I would ask myself, would the child be happy, too? If a couple is in that situation, I think it’s better to not get married and just live together Or date longer, and then get married later. I understand where you***re coming from I think I can accept that [I can give up my career and be a stay-at-home mom/dad] I can***t So you’d want me to be.. a stay-at-home dad? I think we’re both thinking the same thing – I think so, too
– Right? I love my job and I don’t want to lose my job just because I got married I don’t want to lose my job just because I got married I’d rather be the breadwinner and have my husband be the stay-at-home I’d rather be the breadwinner and have my husband be the stay-at-home It’s the same for me, I don’t mean to be belittle full-time homemakers But I’m not a homemaker right now, and I want to achieve and get a sense of fulfillment from my current line of work, and I want to achieve and get a sense of fulfillment from my current line of work, and I want to achieve and get a sense of fulfillment from my current line of work, so I don’t think I can be a full-time homemaker – What if one person absolutely has to stay home,
– Yeah and both don’t want to? If I absolutely had to choose, I think I would have to be the one working What if the woman earns more than you? Even then? Well that would be a different situation but I think I would choose to work, even without considering the finances Because I love my career What if your wife loves her career just as much as you do? Would you consider..? Then I’d probably give up I would probably still stand my ground but if that conflict persists it might be better if I yield in the very end. Ultimately? Yeah, ultimately it’d probably be like that but that ultimately will be after a very very long time Kinda like Lee Bong-ju style, you know the marathoner? Like a marathon Gotton run that marathon [Final Decision] You’re like the MC over here [Send O or X] This is a little uncomfortable No running away without saying a word after the shoot How was it for you? I was really nervous because I’ve never done anything like this before We talked about a lot of things that we wouldn’t in a normal blind date I enjoyed talking about those topics, as well as listening to your views Some parts we really vibed well, and some parts not so much, but all in all, it was a good experience. [The light on the side who selected X will turn off]

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